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"An upheaval is needed to resolve the anguish of man, the power of light is coming forth to dispel the false belief that your individuality takes knee to the mercy of a dollar, the gates of your birthright are open, the purpose behind your being is to serve, to serve is often confused with to please, to please undoubtedly will result in repetition, not from love but from a misalignment of mismanaged senses."-Ashmita Arora
There’s a difference between service and pleasing, though they often get confused rather than identified individually. Service is an act born from alignment with purpose. The flow is natural and feels expansive, empowering both the giver and receiver. Pleasing comes from the need to be validated or accepted, and it contracts us, eventually making us feel depleted. Our society often confuses the two, believing that to serve is to please, to meet expectations, to perform, to fit into a mold of what others demand from us.
Whether it’s through our work, relationships, or even our spiritual practices the problem arises when we measure our worth via external factors . It could very well be subtle at first. You may start to notice a little poke of dissatisfaction. You know that quiet voice that says, "This isn’t what I’m meant to do." But you brush it off, because you tell yourself "I’m helping, I’m giving this must be right, how could it not be." Yet, the more you ignore that voice, the more and more you start becoming disconnected from your true self.
Not knowing the difference between the two is at the root of much of our collective pain. From an early age, we are conditioned to seek approval, to meet external standards that have little to do with our inner calling. We are taught that success, validation, and even forms of love come from outside of us. How do we get it? From fulfilling the expectations of others. Granted, the act might look the same on the surface, giving, contributing, helping, but the energy underneath it is entirely different.
True service is not about sacrifice, it’s not about giving endlessly of yourself until there’s nothing left. Selflessness doesn’t mean depletion, to truly serve absolutely does not mean we must give beyond what we have. Real service comes from a place of fullness, a place where you are connected to source and thus your actions flow naturally.
The power of service lies in its ability to connect you to something much greater than yourself. When you serve from a place of misalignment, you are not truly giving, you are merely trying to fill a void within yourself by meeting some sort of either self imposed or external expectation. And this, inevitably, leads to burnout, frustration, depletion and a deep sense of dissatisfaction.
This is why the distinction between service and pleasing is so crucial. To serve is to be in harmony with your true self. It’s about giving from a place of authenticity, where your actions are a reflection of your inner alignment with your purpose. To please is to give from a place of fear, insecurity, or a desire for validation. It’s a way of seeking approval outside of yourself, rather than trusting that your worth comes from within.
The path to realignment begins with recognizing where you have been pleasing instead of serving. It requires you to ask yourself difficult questions. Are my actions motivated by a desire to be liked, accepted, or approved of? Or are they motivated by a deep inner knowing that I am living my purpose? These questions are not always easy to answer, but they are essential if you want to move from misalignment back into service.
But here’s the deeper lesson, misalignment doesn’t just show up in your actions, it shows up in your senses. Mismanaged senses lead to misalignment. What does that mean? It means that when you are not in alignment with your purpose, your senses are no longer guiding you accurately. You become disconnected not just from your purpose, but from your very ability to sense what is right for you.
The power of light, as my channeled message says, is coming forth to dispel the false belief that your worth is tied to how well you please others. Your individuality does not take a knee to the mercy of external expectations. The gates of your birthright are open. Your purpose is to serve, not to please, not to sacrifice yourself for the approval of others, but to serve from a place of alignment, where your actions are an authentic expression of who you truly are. The time has come.
